Showing posts with label honesty. Show all posts
Showing posts with label honesty. Show all posts

Monday, March 1, 2010

Deception

I wonder sometimes when I ask a person a question and they answer the question but leave out important details that would further clarify a more accurate "truth"! I don't know why people do things like that. Eventually, the truth is meant to come out. That's the way it has to be, it was designed that way. Deception give the "deceptor" a belief that they are in the clear, but only for the time being. It buys time to either fix the situation by being honest, or create another line of deception. Most people do not take this into consideration and therefore the truth prevails.

Deception takes a lot of work...don't we have enough work to do, practice being honest with each other and life will be complicated enough on it's own.

Be excellent to each other....our time here on earth is precious and short.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Invention of Lying

What a brilliant mind of the person who came up with the idea for this movie! I watched it last night and I have to say, Ricky Gervais is so entertaining. He lives in a world where humans always tell the truth, fiction doesn't exist and people take each other at their literal word. The main character is an unsuccessful screenwriter who gains fame and fortune, and maybe the girl of his dreams by saying things that aren't true.

I had to stop and think to myself, just how true this story could have been at the onset of his epiphany after the very first incident of his "invention". Did someone in early, early times make this discovery and it spread like disease? Can this world ever get back to (if we were ever there), complete honesty? What's wrong with being honest? Seems like the world has made dishonesty and lying very prosperous. I've found that when I make a practice of being honest and telling truths, I fall deeper and deeper into a financial hole...(particularly with the city, county, state and u.s. government)! Once you are honest with them, you get audited and red-flagged for quite some time and the only way to get un-flagged is to begin a series of new lies.

I have to admit, I don't like this world we live in and I don't particularly care for most of the people who share it with me. Generally, people I meet and encounter each day are in some kind of "mood" that has absolutely nothing to do with me, but somehow, I am to blame and it comes out in the "encounter".

Let's try and do something different folks, be kind to everyone you come in contact with this week. I'm not saying lay it on thick, just smile and say hello, say excuse me, offer help if they need it, open a door, or just help someone to smile if they are down....what harm could it do?